April 2008

So, we had a small meeting in March and decided not on any BOOKS per se, but on a hosting schedule at least! We met at Good Earth and enjoyed a healthy meal and good conversation, meeting with the mission of our social club piece of our organization. Here is what we determined:

Either Lynnea or Amby will host on the second Sunday of April. We still have to touch base on that one!

And, Susie will host for May.

Kari will host for June.

Hosts, can you recommend a book choice by the next meeting?

Love to read! *I was also thinking, did we want to try branching out to an audible.com experience and try LISTENING to a book on an iPOD for one of these days? Just a thought. . . *

We never did get to have a chat about the Animal Vegetable Miracle book, so why don't we still do that for April? It is available for rent on the $3 a week table at the library and Amby got it from BN.com, a used book, plus it should come out in paperback pretty quick here. When I told someone I read that book, they recommended the following book and I have been reading ever since! So, if you can't get the one, get the other and we can all talk about being healthy, wealthy and wise.

In this revolutionary book, bestselling author John Robbins presents us with a bold new paradigm of aging, showing us how we can increase not only our lifespan but also our health span. Through the example of four very different cultures that have the distinction of producing some of the world’s healthiest, oldest people, Robbins reveals the secrets for living an extended and fulfilling life in which our later years become a period of wisdom, vitality, and happiness. From Abkhasia in the Caucasus south of Russia, where age is beauty, and Vilcabamba in the Andes of South America, where laughter is the greatest medicine, to Hunza in Central Asia, where dance is ageless, and finally the southern Japanese islands of Okinawa, the modern Shangri-la, where people regularly live beyond a century, Robbins examines how the unique lifestyles of these peoples can influence and improve our own.Bringing the traditions of these ancient and vibrantly healthy cultures together with the latest breakthroughs in medical science, Robbins reveals that, remarkably, they both point in the same direction. The result is an inspirational synthesis of years of research into healthy aging in which Robbins has isolated the characteristics that will enable us to live long and–most important–joyous lives. With an emphasis on simple, wholesome, but satisfying fare, and the addition of a manageable daily exercise routine, many people can experience great improvement in the quality of their lives now and for many years to come. But perhaps more surprising is Robbins’ discovery that it is not diet and exercise alone that helps people to live well past one hundred. The quality of personal relationships is enormously important. With startling medical evidence about the effects of our interactions with others, Robbins asserts that loneliness has more impact on lifespan than such known vices as smoking. There is clearly a strong beneficial power to love and connection.“We all have the tools to live longer lives, and to remain active, productive, and resourceful until the very end,” Robbins writes. Healthy at 100 strives to improve both the quality and the quantity of our remaining years–no matter how old or how healthy we might currently be–and to reverse the social stigma on aging. After reading this book, we will never think about age–or life–in the same way again.“John Robbins has inspired millions of people with his eloquent, clear, compassionate, and insightful guidance on the path to health and fulfillment. Healthy at 100 may be his finest work to date. If you are interested in extending your health span as well as your life span, read this book! Healthy at 100 is a masterpiece.”–Dean Ornish, M.D., president and director of the Preventive Medicine Research Institute, author of Dr. Dean Ornish’s Program for Reversing Heart Disease

February 2008

Girls,

It has been nominated, seconded and passed. As if we follow those procedures, but hey, it sounds official! Affectionately calling herself a "Newbie" Kris found this book a peach, and my girlfriend Christa agrees, so Girlfriends' Wisdom rules, and this is our book.

See you all at Sophie's house on Feb. 13th at 6:30.

Now, her deserts are NOT to be missed.

FABULOUS!

Reviewed by Nina Planck Michael Pollan is the crack investigator and graceful narrator of the ecology of local food and the toxic logic of industrial agriculture. Now he has a peer. Novelist Kingsolver recounts a year spent eating home-grown food and, if not that, local. Accomplished gardeners, the Kingsolver clan grow a large garden in southern Appalachia and spend summers "putting food by," as the classic kitchen title goes. They make pickles, chutney and mozzarella; they jar tomatoes, braid garlic and stuff turkey sausage. Nine-year-old Lily runs a heritage poultry business, selling eggs and meat. What they don't raise (lamb, beef, apples) comes from local farms. Come winter, they feast on root crops and canned goods, menus slouching toward asparagus. Along the way, the Kingsolver family, having given up industrial meat years before, abandons its vegetarian ways and discovers the pleasures of conscientious carnivory.This field—local food and sustainable agriculture—is crowded with books in increasingly predictable flavors: the earnest manual, diary of an epicure, the environmental battle cry, the accidental gardener. Animal, Vegetable, Miracle is all of these, and much smarter. Kingsolver takes the genre to a new literary level; a well-paced narrative and the apparent ease of the beautiful prose makes the pages fly. Her tale is both classy and disarming, substantive and entertaining, earnest and funny. Kingsolver is a moralist ("the conspicuous consumption of limited resources has yet to be accepted widely as a spiritual error, or even bad manners"), but more often wry than pious. Another hazard of the genre is snobbery. You won't find it here. Seldom do paeans to heirloom tomatoes (which I grew up selling at farmers' markets) include equal respect for outstanding modern hybrids like Early Girl.Kingsolver has the ear of a journalist and the accuracy of a naturalist. She makes short, neat work of complex topics: what's risky about the vegan diet, why animals belong on ecologically sound farms, why bitterness in lettuce is good. Kingsolver's clue to help greenhorns remember what's in season is the best I've seen. You trace the harvest by botanical development, from buds to fruits to roots. Kingsolver is not the first to note our national "eating disorder" and the injuries industrial agriculture wreaks, yet this practical vision of how we might eat instead is as fresh as just-picked sweet corn. The narrative is peppered with useful sidebars on industrial agriculture and ecology (by husband Steven Hopp) and recipes (by daughter Camille), as if to show that local food—in the growing, buying, cooking, eating and the telling—demands teamwork. (May)Nina Planck is the author of Real Food: What to Eat and Why (Bloomsbury USA, 2006).

January 2008

The first meeting of the new year!

WOW! 2008! January 13th, 6:30 PM, Gina's house.

Gina came to one meeting, and voila! she is hooked back into the loving arms of book club. She says she will come when she is able, and is even up for hosting in January. So, there you go!

And, our Gina actually has this book in her hot little hands, (thanks to our Christmas book exchange) so she is likely to read it. Lisa, has not read a book in let's just say a "little while" and was intrigued by the book, so she is likely to read it. With these great odds of someone actually reading the book, (Susie and Lynnea aside, we're already done with it!) we voted for this book. I loved the soul searching piece of it, for I think our 30/40s brings that out in our journey of life.

From Publishers WeeklyStarred Review: Elizabeth Gilbert (The Last American Man) grafts the structure of romantic fiction upon the inquiries of reporting in this sprawling yet methodical travelogue of soul-searching and self-discovery. Plagued with despair after a nasty divorce, the author, in her early 30s, divides a year equally among three dissimilar countries, exploring her competing urges for earthly delights and divine transcendence. First, pleasure: savoring Italy's buffet of delights--the world's best pizza, free-flowing wine and dashing conversation partners--Gilbert consumes la dolce vita as spiritual succor. "I came to Italy pinched and thin," she writes, but soon fills out in waist and soul. Then, prayer and ascetic rigor: seeking communion with the divine at a sacred ashram in India, Gilbert emulates the ways of yogis in grueling hours of meditation, struggling to still her churning mind. Finally, a balancing act in Bali, where Gilbert tries for equipoise "betwixt and between" realms, studies with a merry medicine man and plunges into a charged love affair. Sustaining a chatty, conspiratorial tone, Gilbert fully engages readers in the year's cultural and emotional tapestry--conveying rapture with infectious brio, recalling anguish with touching candor--as she details her exotic tableau with history, anecdote and impression.

See you in the new year!

December 9th 2007

Come one, come all to Lynnea's house on Dec. 9th around 6:30 for conversation, comraderie and a *new* menu of chocolate treats and wine. Just kidding about the *new* part of the menu, cause if it ain't broke, don't fix it!

Bring a book to share, and as a present to someone, present them with the gift of yourself. What better way to show your heart than by giving what your heart reads? Wrap up one of those treasures from your shelf, or if you can't bear to part with it, pick up another copy.

If you get a chance, our read selection is Water For Elephants. I personally use reading this time of year to escape the hustle and bustle and stress of all thoses things to do. I'm sure I will finish!

Here is the Review:

From Publishers Weekly:

With its spotlight on elephants, Gruen's romantic page-turner hinges on the human-animal bonds that drove her debut and its sequel (Riding Lessons and Flying Changes)—but without the mass appeal that horses hold. The novel, told in flashback by nonagenarian Jacob Jankowski, recounts the wild and wonderful period he spent with the Benzini Brothers Most Spectacular Show on Earth, a traveling circus he joined during the Great Depression. When 23-year-old Jankowski learns that his parents have been killed in a car crash, leaving him penniless, he drops out of Cornell veterinary school and parlays his expertise with animals into a job with the circus, where he cares for a menagerie of exotic creatures[...] He also falls in love with Marlena, one of the show's star performers—a romance complicated by Marlena's husband, the unbalanced, sadistic circus boss who beats both his wife and the animals Jankowski cares for. Despite her often clichéd prose and the predictability of the story's ending, Gruen skillfully humanizes the midgets, drunks, rubes and freaks who populate her book.

www.saragruen.com

October and Beyond 2007

Well girls, we met at Cafe Latte and had some yummy soups and salads. Here is what we came up with for a schedule.

October 7th (the first Sunday, not second) we will discuss A Whole New Mind (see previous post). at Natasha's house, directions to her residence will be forthcoming.

November 11th, Kari's house. Nothing decided, but a friend recommended this to us: Snow Flower and the Secret Fan by Lisa See. REVIEW: See's engrossing novel set in remote 19th-century China details the deeply affecting story of lifelong, intimate friends (laotong, or "old sames") Lily and Snow Flower, their imprisonment by rigid codes of conduct for women and their betrayal by pride and love. While granting immediacy to Lily's voice, See (Flower Net) adroitly transmits historical background in graceful prose. Her in-depth research into women's ceremonies and duties in China's rural interior brings fascinating revelations about arranged marriages, women's inferior status in both their natal and married homes, and the Confucian proverbs and myriad superstitions that informed daily life. Beginning with a detailed and heartbreaking description of Lily and her sisters' foot binding ("Only through pain will you have beauty. Only through suffering will you have peace"), the story widens to a vivid portrait of family and village life. Most impressive is See's incorporation of nu shu, a secret written phonetic code among women—here between Lily and Snow Flower—that dates back 1,000 years in the southwestern Hunan province ("My writing is soaked with the tears of my heart,/ An invisible rebellion that no man can see"). As both a suspenseful and poignant story and an absorbing historical chronicle, this novel has bestseller potential and should become a reading group favorite as well.

December 9th, chez Lynnea in Eden Prairie, for our annual book exchange. We all bring a book from our shelf that we love, wrapped with care, to share with our fellow "lecture" lovers. (That is the french word for you anglophones. . . :-)

January 13th will be chez Lisa in Hudson, book still to be determined!

Welcome to all newbies too!

September 2007

Anyone volunteer for hosting?

Any book ideas?

Should we make it the 16th?

Here is what I am reading for school.

Talk to me people!

August 2007

The Memory Keeper's Daughter
by Kim Edwards
Edwards's assured but schematic debut novel (after her collection, The Secrets of a Fire King) hinges on the birth of fraternal twins, a healthy boy and a girl with Down syndrome, resulting in the father's disavowal of his newborn daughter. A snowstorm immobilizes Lexington, Ky., in 1964, and when young Norah Henry goes into labor, her husband, orthopedic surgeon Dr. David Henry, must deliver their babies himself, aided only by a nurse. Seeing his daughter's handicap, he instructs the nurse, Caroline Gill, to take her to a home and later tells Norah, who was drugged during labor, that their son Paul's twin died at birth. Instead of institutionalizing Phoebe, Caroline absconds with her to Pittsburgh. David's deception becomes the defining moment of the main characters' lives, and Phoebe's absence corrodes her birth family's core over the course of the next 25 years. David's undetected lie warps his marriage; he grapples with guilt; Norah mourns her lost child; and Paul not only deals with his parents' icy relationship but with his own yearnings for his sister as well.

July 2007

The Amateur Marriage A young Baltimore couple marries in the heat of World War: Pauline, impulsive, impractical, tumbles hit-or-miss through life, and Michael, ploddingly cautious, judgmental, and deliberate. Tyler's novel follows them through the ups and downs of their thirty years of marriage, raising their family and struggling to balance their deep-rooted differences, which may be too great to bridge.

The Historian June 2007

If your pulse flutters at the thought of castle ruins and descents into crypts by moonlight, you will savor every creepy page of Elizabeth Kostova's long but beautifully structured thriller The Historian. The story opens in Amsterdam in 1972, when a teenage girl discovers a medieval book and a cache of yellowed letters in her diplomat father's library. The pages of the book are empty except for a woodcut of a dragon. The letters are addressed to: "My dear and unfortunate successor." When the girl confronts her father, he reluctantly confesses an unsettling story: his involvement, twenty years earlier, in a search for his graduate school mentor, who disappeared from his office only moments after confiding to Paul his certainty that Dracula--Vlad the Impaler, an inventively cruel ruler of Wallachia in the mid-15th century--was still alive. The story turns out to concern our narrator directly because Paul's collaborator in the search was a fellow student named Helen Rossi (the unacknowledged daughter of his mentor) and our narrator's long-dead mother, about whom she knows almost nothing. And then her father, leaving just a note, disappears also.
As well as numerous settings, both in and out of the East Bloc, Kostova has three basic story lines to keep straight--one from 1930, when Professor Bartolomew Rossi begins his dangerous research into Dracula, one from 1950, when Professor Rossi's student Paul takes up the scent, and the main narrative from 1972. The criss-crossing story lines mirror the political advances, retreats, triumphs, and losses that shaped Dracula's beleaguered homeland--sometimes with the Byzantines on top, sometimes the Ottomans, sometimes the rag-tag local tribes, or the Orthodox church, and sometimes a fresh conqueror like the Soviet Union.
Although the book is appropriately suspenseful and a delight to read--even the minor characters are distinctive and vividly seen--its most powerful moments are those that describe real horrors. Our narrator recalls that after reading descriptions of Vlad burning young boys or impaling "a large family," she tried to forget the words: "For all his attention to my historical education, my father had neglected to tell me this: history's terrible moments were real. I understand now, decades later, that he could never have told me. Only history itself can convince you of such a truth." The reader, although given a satisfying ending, gets a strong enough dose of European history to temper the usual comforts of the closing words. --Regina Marler

Raising Cain May 2007

Reviving Ophelia, Mary Pipher's groundbreaking book, exposed the toxic environment faced by adolescent girls in our society. Now, from the same publisher, comes Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys by Dan Kindlon and Michael Thompson, which does the same for adolescent boys. Boys suffer from a too-narrow definition of masculinity, the authors assert as they expose and discuss the relationship between vulnerability and developing sexuality, the "culture of cruelty" boys live in, the "tyranny of toughness," the disadvantages of being a boy in elementary school, how boys' emotional lives are squelched, and what we, as a society, can do about all this without turning "boys into girls." "Our premise is that boys will be better off if boys are better understood--and if they are encouraged to become more emotionally literate," the authors assert. As a tool for change, Kindlon and Thompsom present the well-developed "What Boys Need," seven points that reach far beyond the ordinary psychobabble checklist and slogan list. Kindlon (researcher and psychology professor at Harvard and practicing psychotherapist specializing in boys) and Thompson (child psychologist, workshop leader, and staff psychologist of an all-boys school) have created a chilling portrait of male adolescence in America. Through personal stories and theoretical discussion, this well-needed book plumbs the well of sadness, anger, and fear in America's teenage sons. --Ericka Lutz --

Old Readings

For awhile, I was good at keeping track of what we were reading. I fell off the wagon, but here is what I have. I will post things as I find them. . .

It goes:
Date, Book, Author, Host

February-00, Einstein's Dreams, Alan Lightman, Lynnea West
March-00, A Map of the World, Jane Hamilton, Lisa Thompson
April-00, The Christmas Box, Richard Paul Evans, Karen Doerfler
May-00, A Widow for One Year, John Irving, Gina Sciola
June-00, The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe, C.S. Lewis, Amy O'Neill
July-00, The Sparrow, Mary Doria Russel, Kelli Cox
August-00, SUMMER VACATION
September-00, I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings, Maya Angelou, Susie Sawyer
October-00, Ishmael, Daniel Quinn, Lisa Bekemeyer
November-00, Bridget Jones' Diary (Baby Shower for Maya) Helen Fielding, Gina Sciola
December-00
January-01, The Horse Whisperer, Nicholas Evans, Karen Doerfler
February-01, Prodigal Summer, Barbara Kingsolver, Lynnea West
March-01, The Red Tent (Baby Shower for Luke), Anita Diamant, Susie Sawyer
April-01, Left Behind, Tim LaHaye, Gina Sciola
May-01, Bridget Jones' Diary The Movie, MOA
June-01, Memoirs of a Geisha, Arthur S. Golden, Amy O'Neill
July-01, SUMMER VACATION
August-01, Bee Season (Wedding Shower for Gina), Myla Goldberg, Lisa Bekemeyer
September-01, Stolen Lives, Malika Oufkir, Kelli Cox
October-01, Big Stone Gap, Adriana Trigiani, Lynnea West
November-01, Charms for the Easy Life, Kay Gibbons, Susie Sawyer
December-01
January-02, The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down, Anne Fadiman, Lisa Bekemeyer
February-02, A Beautiful Mind The Movie, MOA
March-02, When Calls the Heart, Florence Denais
April-02, Cause Celeb, Helen Fielding, Michael Possehl
May-02, Back When We Were Grownups, Gina Schneeberger
June-02, Mermaids Singing, Kelli Cox
July-02, Rich Dad Poor Dad, Lynnea West
August-02, The New Birth Order Book, Kevin Lehman, Susie Sawyer
September-02, The Miracle Life of Edgar Mint, Brady Udall
October-02
November-02, A Girl Named Zippy, Haven Kimmel, Amy O'Neill
December-02
January-03
February-03, Satellite Sisters, Dolan Sisters, Fairview Hospital
March-03, Me Talk Pretty One Day, David Sedaris, The Good Earth
April-03, The Secret Life of Bees, Amy O'Neill
May-03, Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work (Wedding Shower for Susie), Gottman, Lisa Bekemeyer
June-03, YEARLY PLANNING, Lynnea West
July-03, SUMMER VACATION
August-03, The Hiding Place, Trezza Azzopardi, Kelli Cox
September-03
October-03
November-03
December-03
January-04
February-04
March-04
April-04
May-04
June-04
July-04, Waiting, Ha Jin
August-04, Nine Hills to Nambonkaha, Sara Erdman, Lynnea West
September-04, The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands, Dr. Laura, Michele Carlson
October-04, The Devil Wears Prada, Natasha Rodich
November-04, Indian Restaurant

Social Club with Suggested Readings

Well girls, here we go a blogging. I figure we can actually think about our reading and write about our thoughts on our blog, and when we meet, stick to the social! How about we try to enter the age of the interactive internet and blog about our thoughts and musings? We have a great group of women that I admire. We have a history I want to preserve. We have thoughts that are worth saving and sharing with each other.